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Sample Custody Plan

ICWA-Compliant Template for Native American Families

Important: This is a sample template for informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for legal advice. Custody plans should be tailored to your specific circumstances and must comply with applicable tribal, state, and federal law. Consult with an attorney before using this template.

Parenting Plan and Custody Agreement

Section 1: Parties and Children

Mother: _________________________________ (Name)

Tribal Affiliation: _________________________________ (Tribe, Enrollment No.)

Address: _________________________________

Phone: _________________________________

Father: _________________________________ (Name)

Tribal Affiliation: _________________________________ (Tribe, Enrollment No.)

Address: _________________________________

Phone: _________________________________

Child(ren):

Name: _________________________________ DOB: ____________

Tribal Affiliation: _________________________________ (Enrolled / Eligible for Enrollment)

Name: _________________________________ DOB: ____________

Tribal Affiliation: _________________________________ (Enrolled / Eligible for Enrollment)

Section 2: Legal Custody

The parties shall have (check one):

[ ] Joint Legal Custody: Both parents shall share decision-making authority regarding the child(ren)'s education, healthcare, religious upbringing, and cultural activities.

[ ] Sole Legal Custody to Mother/Father: _____________ shall have sole decision-making authority.

Consultation Requirement: Before making major decisions, the custodial parent shall consult with the non-custodial parent and make good-faith efforts to reach agreement.

Section 3: Physical Custody and Parenting Time

The child(ren) shall reside primarily with: _________________________________

Regular Parenting Time Schedule:

Weekdays: _________________________________

Weekends: _________________________________

Summer: _________________________________

Holiday Schedule:

  • Thanksgiving: Alternating years, beginning _____________ (Even/Odd years with Mother/Father)
  • Christmas/Winter Break: _________________________________
  • Spring Break: _________________________________
  • Mother's Day: With Mother
  • Father's Day: With Father
  • Child's Birthday: _________________________________

Section 4: Tribal and Cultural Activities

ICWA Consideration: The parties recognize the importance of maintaining the child(ren)'s connection to their tribal heritage, culture, and community.

Tribal Events: Both parents shall support and facilitate the child(ren)'s participation in tribal ceremonies, feast days, cultural events, and community gatherings, including but not limited to:

  • _________________________________
  • _________________________________
  • _________________________________

Language and Cultural Education: Both parents agree to support the child(ren)'s learning of:

  • Native language: _________________________________
  • Traditional skills and knowledge: _________________________________
  • Tribal history and customs: _________________________________

Extended Family: Both parents recognize the importance of the child(ren)'s relationships with extended family members and clan relatives, and shall facilitate regular contact with:

  • Maternal relatives: _________________________________
  • Paternal relatives: _________________________________
  • Clan relatives: _________________________________

Section 5: Transportation and Exchanges

Exchange Location: _________________________________

Transportation Responsibility: _________________________________

Notice for Schedule Changes: _________ hours/days advance notice required

Section 6: Communication

The child(ren) shall have reasonable phone/video contact with the non-custodial parent, including:

Frequency: _________________________________

Method: [ ] Phone [ ] Video call [ ] Text/Message

Times: _________________________________

Section 7: Relocation

Neither parent shall relocate the child(ren)'s residence more than _________ miles from the current residence without:

  • Written consent of the other parent, OR
  • Court approval after proper notice

Notice Requirement: _________ days written notice before proposed relocation

Section 8: Child Support

Child support shall be paid as follows:

Payor: _________________________________

Amount: $_________ per month

Due Date: _________ of each month

Method: _________________________________

Section 9: Health Insurance and Medical Expenses

Health Insurance Provider: _________________________________

Responsible Party: _________________________________

Uncovered Medical Expenses: Shall be divided _____% Mother / _____% Father

Section 10: Dispute Resolution

In the event of a dispute regarding this parenting plan, the parties agree to:

[ ] Attempt mediation before filing court action

[ ] Participate in tribal peacemaking: _________________________________

[ ] Seek guidance from: _________________________________

Section 11: Signatures

___________________________________ Date: _______________

Mother's Signature

___________________________________ Date: _______________

Father's Signature

___________________________________ Date: _______________

Witness (Optional)

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